I definitely try to collaborate with my attorney on the facts of my case both good and bad. This has been difficult at times I would put it in the perspective of a long distance romance, in that players in the long distance romance try with letters, messages, and phone calls to keep their romance alive. In my case the same applies except that it’s not love between each other it is the love for my life, or the quality of it, so the collaboration has been very trying, when you can’t look someone in the eye it is hard for certain truths to come out or be seen perse on both his and mine- end. Yes that is the definitive word. How will it end? (Care Bear)